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Prayers Over Posts: Choosing Peace Over Facebook Outrage
I scrolled past posts like: “I’m glad this person died,” “This person was inherently evil, and now they're dead - oh well,” or “This person was the best, I can’t believe they’re gone.” And then one voice of reason: someone I know was from the other political side from the person who died wrote, “Nobody should have to die for the right to free speech.” That was it. One clear, level-headed post in a sea of nonsense.

Kristian
Oct 13 min read


The Tiny Moments That Make It All Worthwhile
Even now, two months later, when we drop Danielle off first, William insists I lift him to look through the window before he’s willing to walk to his classroom.

Kristian
Sep 302 min read


Messy Monday -> Makeover Monday: Closets are NOT a Magic Portal
...And let’s be honest, I’m not entirely innocent here either. When company’s coming in 15 minutes and I don’t know where to shove the Amazon boxes, guess where they go? Yep. My space. Apparently, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

Kristian
Sep 292 min read


Silent Fits, Cake Smashes, and Sibling Chaos: Life with a Two-Year-Old
I am six kids in, and by now, I thought I had seen it all. But my two-year-old? He’s here to prove me wrong. Specifically, he’s invented something I like to call the silent fit.

Kristian
Sep 263 min read


Walking Through My House: Enter at Your Own Risk
Walking through my house can feel like stepping into a hurricane—except the storm is mostly Legos, laundry, and a few stray toys that multiply overnight. With six kids, a small business, and a day job, my house is never “perfect,” and honestly? That’s okay. Some of you might look at these rooms and think, “Oh wow, she’s a slob,” while others are silently sighing in relief that it’s not just them. Between hand-me-downs, overflowing closets, and the constant battle of keeping u

Kristian
Sep 244 min read


Oh My Gosh What AI Can Do
The bottom line? AI is a tool. It helps me clean things up, generate ideas, and even visualize my posts. But the heart of these blogs—the real, chaotic, messy, beautiful life of a mom of six—that can’t be faked. These posts are my life. And if they help even one person realize that real life isn’t perfect, then they’ve done their job.

Kristian
Sep 234 min read


Messy Monday -> Makeover Monday: I Crave Clean but I Live In Chaos
The shift happens fast. At first I’m all, “Look at me, I’m an organized queen!” Then the mess creeps in, and suddenly I’m thinking, “Why should I even try? Nobody else is trying.” That little rebellious voice is dangerous, because the reality is—I’ll end up cleaning it anyway.

Kristian
Sep 222 min read


13 Year Old Boy Style
And what does this shy kid pick? The black. I laughed to myself, because I know he’s starting to notice girls, and honestly, that teal shirt would have been the ultimate “girl catcher.”

Kristian
Sep 203 min read


Chipotle-Style Dinner Win
Last night I threw together a Chipotle-style dinner at home, and let me tell you—it was easy, cheap, and super satisfying. Only one kid halfway complained (which honestly feels like a win in this house).

Kristian
Sep 192 min read


Fighting Monsters, My Daughter’s Way
When playing video games my husband and my boys (13 and 8) re pretty good at the fighting part of the game. My daughter and I? We’re more into the exploring side. But, being slightly competitive—and sometimes harassed by her brothers—my daughter likes to prove that she can take down the big monsters too...

Kristian
Sep 183 min read


Barbie, Tulle, and the Pure Joy of Childhood
There’s something magical about watching 11-year-old girls discover tulle, twirl in big dresses, and make Barbies live out their wildest adventures—especially when you realize it takes you straight back to your own childhood.

Kristian
Sep 173 min read


An update on the cat that stole our hearts and cost us more than a vacation
Caesar has had quite the journey. He spent four weeks in a cast, then the next week in a cone because the cast irritated his skin so badly he started trying to chew off his toes. After that came three more weeks of crate rest. We had three different enclosures scattered around the house for him:

Kristian
Sep 112 min read


I Deleted Facebook from My Phone… and Honestly, I’ve Never Felt Better
Then I did it. I had been toying with the notion anyway. I closed the app, it was making me feel miserable anyway, and hit uninstall.
A feeling of deep relief came over me, and then a strange sense of panic. What would I do to chill at night without Facebook?

Kristian
Sep 83 min read


Rejection Sucks
A few weeks later, I got the rejection email. The team had chosen someone else.
At first, I was relieved, really, I still am. Something better will come along.
But in the moment, the plain toaster waffles that I was making for my late breakfast turned into a waffle sundae. 10x the calories.

Kristian
Sep 42 min read


In The Mind of A 5 Year Old
Since Alexander just started kinder, he's migrated from being picked up about 6PM to being home at 3PM. With his recent ADHD diagnosis and his medication, about 4PM he comes off of his meds and hits the ceiling. I'm talking about full blown fits with stomping and crying and winding up, etc.

Kristian
Aug 293 min read


I Typed my Daily Routine into AI and Even Chat GPT Thinks I'm Nuts
...So I went to ChatGPT and I typed in my daily schedule (below) and ChatGPT very politely said "You're nuts".

Kristian
Aug 288 min read


Toys That I'll Consider Saving for My Grandchildren
A Mom of Six Outlines the Toys that All of Her Kids have Played with throughout the years.

Kristian
Aug 274 min read


6 Kids, So Many Drop-Offs
It's football season and our daily routine starts with a 6:30AM drop-off for my son, Henry. This means, at a very minimum we are waking...

Kristian
Aug 264 min read


A Miracle
Today I re-lived the miracle of my daughter in a few minutes. It seriously took forever to type, but only moments to remember. I also remembered that being too busy, too crazy, too stressed about life is a way that we block God out and let the evil one in. I've been down on life lately.

Kristian
Aug 266 min read


A Trashed House
Sometimes, a trashed house can feel good, but no, I'm not a slob.

Kristian
Aug 252 min read
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